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Showing posts with label hijab and problems. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hijab and problems. Show all posts

Sunday, September 27, 2015

Awesomtastic


Assalamualaikum.

None i follow on Instagram,
But I likes stalking around.
And it's really interesting. May added as my fav hobbies in future.
And,
I'm not sure if you're following one of the Prince of Johor's Instagram, Tunku Idris (TTJ).
And aware the statement about his sister, TTA (Tunku Aminah).
Who being judge by others.

Here I wrote back for those who miss:

"When i see comments about my sister not wearing a tudong it does tick me off.
I know that she prays more than some of those that covers their heads, she wears 'selendang' at all religious events.
Is it not good enough? Isn't it between her and Allah?
Isn't that a sinful things to do to her?
Why don't we turn our heads and not look if it's such a sin?
Some people tends to forget about culture as well, we are Malays and not Arabs.
Dressing up like an Arab doesn't make us any more religious. 
Burkas, yea it's to cover the 'aurat' but it's also a cultural attire and not just religious, in the middle east it protects those wearing it from the elements such as sand storms and also the scorching heat.
One 'orang alim' told me once, you cover your face if you're really beautiful and could cause distraction to others.
I know TTA doesn't care about what people think of her but as brother i do. 
I'll stand for her and also my beloved mother, aunts, cousins and sister in law.
Reminds those who are around you first before reminding someone who you don't even know personally."

Behalf of my opinion about this things are.
...I hope non will misunderstand with my next words...
Wow and just wow.
Very well said Tunku!
I called this is as a modern idea and companionship of siblings.
The idea of it is basically the same as protection.
Yup,
Protection means that he do the best from everything, from sadness, from difficulty.
For his lovely sister.
Two thumbs up for him protecting her in every single way.

Even i know cover the aurah/aurat is a serious commitment.
That it's wajib/ a must.
But i believe, he also know, she also know... we also know this fact. No need for me to explain why.
Neither i nor my magical keyboard will fight over this.
Not really wants offended anyone.
Because what he said is reasonable.
That it's between her and Allah.
Like people always pretend, kubur lain-lain. Azab lain-lain.

And.
This remind me about a prostitute who protect and care a dog.
That you know about that stories?
Masyaallah.
How Allah is a forgiver.

For me,
Just like i always said, 
Please love Allah more.
Try your very best and have faith to Allah.

Little things will start adding up to this issues.
Trust me.
People like blame, judging and think themselves are better.
This are common manners.
Not only Malay... but everywhere.
Just,
If he/her or us have mercy of Allah.
Regret and never lose hope...Never decline even may of some commit sins.
Then Allah may a space between those hope.
Times will change everything.
InsyaAllah.

Like those some who not agree with me.
That i'm not brave enough to deal with what's wrong and right with Islam.
As law may arrest me to fight with royal class.
Just remember, I also not perfect,
But try hard to be one.
I'm not against him or anyone. I'm also Johorean.
I respect him, his statement, his right and value.
And his life.

Just let me...
Share you a very good advises from Mufti Ismail Manek.
May Allah bless TTJ,TTA and ours.

P/S: An honor to put him as my first person i follow.

When you see a female dresses in a manner that is unacceptable Islamically, do not for a moments think that she is lower than you spiritually. If you do that, you are lower than her. Believe me, that is the teaching of your religion. She might have a link with her creator that you do not know about. She might have a heart that is tons better than yours. She might have one weakness that is outward, and you have 50 weakness that are hidden. Mufti Ismail Menk.
: )

Monday, September 14, 2015

How long have i been ugly

Assalamualaikum.


Trust me, this is what i truly feel... when i wore hijab all day long.
Then to make this story nicer, it is the busiest day of my life.
LOL.
Pretend everything are okay.
Even actully my world seems gonna end.

Just,
Did all as fast as i can.
Smiling and smiling again.
So, after finish and time to go the ladies... omaigod!
What the fish.
Did i seen a ghost in a daylight?
Hahhahha...

Not even i'm complaining.
Cover our aurat is most important.
But, 
You know...i,
Just want to share the feeeeling.

After years, 
Now I know the formula.
I decided to wear something comfortable and simple.
Square scarf as example.
Great.
And feel free.

Another good tips, if i still have to wear something funtastica hijab...
Just make sure i have a time to fix myself.
Yeah!
It's my right, yo.
: )

Nanti taklah kakak aku pengsan nengoknya.

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